Testimonials

Phobias and fears

“I can’t describe the frustration I feel having received the hour’s treatment with you yesterday. My flying phobia has completely gone, I wish I’d done this years ago (as does my wife). We’re going to enjoy our 25th wedding anniversary abroad this year.”

Overcoming bullying

“You have really turned her life around. She is happy at school, the bullying she was so worn down by is no longer affecting her. Her phobia of small spaces has completely disappeared and she is happy and relaxed and out with her friends again. The change is dramatic and moving – we’d both given up believing she could live normally.”

Panic attacks cured

“Seven years of panic attacks and you stopped them in one hour. Gratitude? No, it’s so much more than that.”

Weight lost, self-esteem gained

“I no longer cringe or hide when a camera is pointed my way. I’ve lost 3 stone since I came to see you last year, but more than that, I’m actually happy being me. I look in the mirror and see good bits, I’d never been able to find any before.”

IBS under control

“Since our sessions, my IBS has been under my control, and the horrendous anxiety of having embarrassing “accidents” has stopped – as have the “accidents” themselves. I have to say, I wasn’t expecting a cure, but somehow you did it. It’s gotta be magic or something.”

Driving success

A client passes their eighth driving test: “I cannot believe I passed my driving test. I never imagined I would ever get here and you have totally changed my life. When I told my husband I’d passed, he just didn’t understand what I was saying, he couldn’t believe I’d done it after all those failures. I would never have been able to do it without your help and support.”

The confidence to speak up

“I can speak up in meetings without breaking into an uncontrollable sweat. The constant self-criticism has stopped and my mind is peaceful. I was so wound up when I came to see you, I’d been living like that for so long I didn’t even know I was doing it half the time.”

Birth trauma

“Seven years after the birth of my first child I was pregnant again. I was happy but also terrified of that scary bit at the end. The bit before the epidural and the arrival of my beautiful baby. You know, the bit with the beeping machines, smell of disinfectant, screams of women in the rooms next to yours giving you a forewarning of the huge pain to come. Oh yes, and the huge pain itself, off the Richter Scale and unendurable. Boy, I was scared of giving birth again.”

And then I did a few sessions with Hari and I made peace with birth. I realized something that I had forgotten – most of it was OK, but the horrible bits had blotted out everything else in my memory. Hari helped me to access the positive parts of what I had previously thought of as a traumatic event. Best of all, I stopped thinking that my body couldn’t give birth without a vast amount of medical assistance and began to realise that I had done well, and been really brave, in what was at times a stressful situation.”

I went on to do a hypnobirthing course and had the birth I dreamed of – a water birth at home with no pain relief. Thank you Hari for the miracle you worked. I can’t believe you did so much in just a few hours!”

Drinking in moderation

“When I called you, I genuinely believed I had a serious alcohol problem. I was so anxious about being out of control with my drinking and the effect it was having on my health. Now, I really can take it or leave it, I’ve never been able to do that before. I’m not sure what you did, but it certainly worked.”

A cure for insomnia

“My sleep has returned to a normal pattern. I feel like a human being again and I’m just so glad that those years of insomnia are finally over.”

Moving on from grief

“It’s been five long years of grieving and I didn’t think I’d ever get over my partner’s death, but you have helped me move on and find peace of mind again. The memories I think of now, are of the good times we shared, a real change from the other things I’d been obsessed by.”

From a teenage client

“I am a 13-year-old girl who Hari helped with what seemed like an incurable problem, caused by stress and anxiety which was partly led by bullying at school. I went to the clinic unsure of whether anyone could help but I was proved wrong as no problem is too big for Hari! Even after one session, overcoming and coping with my problem suddenly seemed possible. She immediately made me feel comfortable and like I wasn’t stupid. She has your interest at heart and never puts any pressure on you.”

“Hari has taught me to control my anxiety and break the vicious bullying circle. Hari has given me the confidence to minimize the effects that the bully has on me in a positive and non-confrontational way. She has taught me life skills that I can apply to many difficult situations and people.”

“My problem no longer controls me, I control it, that’s not to say I don’t have my moments but I have the skills to deal with them. I feel like I have my spark back. I could never thank Hari enough for how much she has helped me, she is a truly inspirational person who I would recommend to anybody. xx”

Flying phobia

"Until I booked in with Hari, I’d only been able to fly if I had some strong medication and an even stronger sense of dread with me. I spent three sessions with Hari, after which I felt the most enormous sense of relief. A couple of days after our last session, I flew to the US, and for the first time in my life, I felt completely relaxed and even managed to sleep. I didn’t even have to constantly check the air stewardesses’ eyes to see if they were terrified (cos the plane was about to crash). Since that time I have continued to fly without any problems. It’s been a huge change, especially as I’m an Australian living in the UK, long haul flights are something I do regularly – now with ease."

Reflecting on birth trauma

“After our session, I felt completely differently about the birth experience I’d had with my first child. It had haunted me for such a long time and affected my second pregnancy too. Thank you for helping me put the whole thing behind me. I’ve been able to find good in what was a horrendous experience.”

“I will help you change your feelings, for good. Things that you’ve worried about and talked about, but that don't ever change. Together, we can change the way you feel. Leave fears and worries for good.”